Psychotherapist Pamela Stephenson Connolly does an advice column for The Guardian. Laments a reader:

My partner and I are in our mid-20s and we have been together for just over a year. They [sic] are non-binary and all of my previous relationships have been with women (I am a woman). I love my partner so much, but our intimacy has become a lot less regular over the course of our relationship. I wonder if it’s because of the absence of a strong feminine/masculine dynamic, where one person is expected to have a specific role. Do you have any advice for overcoming this?

The pernicious advice is what you might expect from The Guardian. Dr. Pamela does her best to leach the warped relationship of any meaning while pushing the reader further into deviance:

I would not necessarily assume that your lowered sexual frequency is related to gender roles. Perhaps you need to create some separateness from your partner – not necessarily related to erotic connection, but in your lives generally. …

[A] high degree of closeness in a relationship can reduce the erotic spark.

Also, the couple is advised to “allow yourselves the joy of erotic experimentation.”

Those of us who are not psychotherapists or in the employ of The Guardian can provide advice more likely to secure not only a more satisfying sex life but a more satisfying life in general. Reject perversion, reject degeneracy, and have a normal relationship with a normal person of the opposite sex. This approach has worked great throughout the history of the human race.

On a tip from Steve T.